I like this guy and he likes me but his my bother in laws cousin I found him to be really sweet, genuine, thoughtful as well as he is very hard working and intelligent. He is very successful but sadly, he and my brother in law do not get along. My sister told me to stay away from him because she said that he was bad. I asked what he did wrong and why he was so “bad” she said that there where reports of him “Raping a woman” and she said that he was evil because he takes “anti depression pills” since he had a bad childhood. but I found out that my brother in law and his family never get along in the 1st place Furthermore, there has been many “rumours” going around that where false about him but I have been talking to him for 4weeks now and I have this close connection with him. His always straightforward with me and he told me about his whole life story and what really happened and how he was engaged to his friend But it didn’t workout because they grow apart and they went back to being friends. He even
told me that he kissed a guy before when he was younger because he was confused about his sexuality because people in his family always put him down and they said that he was gay and he was confused. But he said that he isn’t and he has matured now. His 27years old and his very successful and he just wants a chance. Furthermore, He has gone out of
his way to show that all these rumours are false. He even went and got his file from the police just to show me that his not lying and to “prove” that he never raped a woman. He always makes time for me and he even told me that he wants to make peace with my brother in law and sister. and he wants me to be happy and he does not want me to stress and he said that he would do anything just to be with me. but my sisters said that if I chose him then I would never be apart of this family again. My mom hasn’t even meet him and she thinks his bad and my dad doesn’t want anything to do with it. I tried to let him go for 3weeks but then I came back to him because I like him and I can’t stop thinking about him & he feels the same way. Im 21 and I come from a “strict family” no matter what I do no one is happy.Then today we went for a drive in his car & he picked me up in his Porsche but no one knew. he took me out and we just sat in the park and we talked and he hugged me so much. and he said that he was going crazy over me and he really wanted this to work out and he ignored all his business calls and meetings just to be with me today. He was a perfect gentleman. and it was really nice and we walked around and he wouldn’t stop looking in my eyes. and he even called me after that just to make sure that I was ok but he said that he was stressed out because he wants this relationship to work out but he knows that my family as well as his family will never leave us alone. so I said that we would stop talking for 2weeks so that we can think and see how our feelings are before we rash into anything he was sad but he said that was a good idea because he said that he doesn’t know what he wants anymore. My question is does he like me or is he messing with my head and what should I do
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He sounds like he has a lot of baggage. We all have issues and skeletons in our closet but this guy sounds like he is going to do nothing but bring you down!
do you feel better now????? i didnt read the question because it waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to long
You obviously want to give him a chance to prove he is a good man. Why not take things very slowly with him. Date him. But dont sleep with him yet, because then you will become much more emotionally involved, and it will be much harder for you to let go later if you have to. Just enjoy each others company, go out, hold hands, keep it simple and sweet. But be careful with him. Listen to your instincts, and if he tries to get you to do anything you dont feel safe with, then dont do it. And watch to see if he is behaving himself, no drugs, nothing dangerous. If he is really a nice man, he will be happy to spend time with you and will respect that you need to wait a while, get to know him better, before you have sex and get seriously involved.
Personally I think Its a no go. Rumors like that dont just start for no reason, that a serious offence, even if he does like you a lot and had a bad childhood , and I dont care how many people told me I was gay, If I were a dude I wouldnt kiss another dude, now a girl is different lol….But it sounds to me like he has issues with some kind of sex problems, and dont tell him you yahoo answered this, he might come after me . I really think you should stay away from him though, before your feelings grow so strong your willing to risk everything just to be next to him. People like that are so convincing and persuasive. Havent you seen tina turners “whats love got to do with it” lol
baby girl.. if your brother in-law & his family hate him ignore them and be happy with the guy. If he proved to you that he has never done anything like rape a girl then forget about that and just ignore your family. You are the one that wants to be happy so fall in love like you say you guys are crazy for each other and move on. its not like all your family members are going to stop talking to you just because your brother in-law hates the guy you like. Forget ur brother in-law and be happy. i would. You have friends and family that support you. you just dont know who yet but you will know later. Just follow your heart and love the guy already. Dont push him away because in the end you will end up losing him because hell think you believed them over him.
I have the distinct feeling that your very unhappy with your home life. This man shows you a world of attention thus blinding you to the reality that this man is trouble. Stop and think do you truly believe that ALL these reports and ALL these people are just ALL wrong about this man? I truly hope for your sake that im wrong if you decide to continue seeing this guy. This man seems very possessive, really wanting this to work out, hes stressed out he calls you as soon as you leave. Everyone deserves a second chance but i would proceed with caution on this one.
I am a witness to a similar story where all elders in family were against the boy because they knew his character was bad but the girl was influenced by boy in such a way that she was thinking only in his favour. Almost seven years ago they both married.
Today girl is having vary bad married life. He drink daily, abuse and beat her publically when drank.
She is graduate and working woman. She has confessed that her decision of marrying him was wrong but since taken by herself as such taking full responsibilty of decision she is facing realty of life.
From above story the onus of decision is on yours. If you believe that man you are in love is good human being than take onus of decision on yourself and go ahead. But if you have doubt, than always follows the advise of others who are your own.
Please tell me your not as dumb as a stump. I read the whole story and he is madly in love with you. If you don’t have any misgivings about him than I suggest you start seeing on a regular bases
Try to get your BIL to discuss why they don’t get a long. Does this guy have family around where you live see how they feel about him
Good Luck I wish you well
Honey, it’s obvious he Loves you. Look what he’s done just to prove his love you/ The first one who answered said he sounds like a lot of baggage. NO he’s not. Both families are being unreasonable. I don’t understand why people can’t be forgiving. Why does everyone have to bring up the past? Why can’t they see beyond what he did has as a teen and see how he is now? He is successful, and has not gotten into any trouble. He hurts when you’re apart. You are of age and old enough to make up your own mind. Forget what everyone else thinks, concentrate on what the both of you want. Give it time, take it slow and enjoy each other. I’m sorry, but I really needed to answer this because I haven’t heard from you and if this is the only way I can hear from you, then so be it. You are a wonderful woman. You deserve only the best and why should you avoid a man that feels so much for you? It’s not fair to either of you. Only the best for the best I always say. I’m sorry for answering this question, but like I said, I had too because I didn’t hear from you and as always, I get worried that my angel is have problems. And for those who think that I love this woman? you’re right, I will do anything to help her. You have no idea what a kind person she is. I guess enough said. Write to me Sweetheart OK. Love you.
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I’ll gear this review to 2 types of people: current Zune owners who are considering an upgrade, and people trying to decide between a Zune and an iPod. (There are other players worth considering out there, like the Sony Walkman X, but I hope this gives you enough info to make an informed decision of the Zune vs players other than the iPod line as well.)
Sorry for the huge review, but I’m really loving the new Zune, and hope this, as well as the excellent reviews some other people have written, will help you decide if it’s the right choice for you.
Apple now has Rhapsody as an app, which is a great start, but it is currently hampered by the inability to store locally on your iPod, and has a dismal 64kbps bit rate. If this changes, then it will somewhat negate this advantage for the Zune, but the 10 songs per month will still be a big plus in Zune Pass’ favor.
I’ll gear this review to 2 types of people: current Zune owners who are considering an upgrade, and people trying to decide between a Zune and an iPod. (There are other players worth considering out there, like the Sony Walkman X, but I hope this gives you enough info to make an informed decision of the Zune vs players other than the iPod line as well.)
The new Zune browser is surprisingly good, but not as good as the iPod’s. It works well, but isn’t as fast as Safari, and has a clunkier interface. If you occasionally plan on using the web browser that’s not an issue, but if you’re planning to browse the web alot from your PMP then the iPod’s larger screen and better browser may be important.
i didnt know that, is there another article like that? because i really wanna know more about it
I’ll gear this review to 2 types of people: current Zune owners who are considering an upgrade, and people trying to decide between a Zune and an iPod. (There are other players worth considering out there, like the Sony Walkman X, but I hope this gives you enough info to make an informed decision of the Zune vs players other than the iPod line as well.)